Friday, October 14, 2005
THE ART OF SELF-CONTROL
THE ART OF SELF-CONTROL
Contributed by Melanie Schurr
Oct 14, 2005
"So think clearly and exercise self-control." I Peter 1:13
In the 1960's, which was considered the "hippie" generation within the
United States, there was a popular phrase, "If it feels good, do it!"
Obviously, this was a message promoting instant gratification, minus
worry of the probable consequences. Today, many people affirm this is
the "me" generation. In other words, everything is about the
individual's needs, whims and desires.
At a glance, these may sound like very suitable life philosophies, but
let us keep in mind that what society may deem popular is not always
what God considers appropriate.
You may ask, "What's wrong with satisfying a desire of mine? After all,
aren't I worth it? I see no reason to deprive myself of what makes me
feel good!"
Quenching healthy desires is a very good thing, but it is the feeding
of poison into our minds, bodies and spirits that ultimately bring
sickness and risk of death to our souls. For example, a vial of heroine
may bring temporary nirvana, but most wise individuals understand why
it is best to leave such substances alone. Unfortunately, satan is such
a deceiver that not all things which are a danger to us are so clearly
marked. Consider the married husband or wife who has a bit too much to
drink at a night club, and is seriously considering an extra-marital
affair with the flirtatious person they just met. Their mind and body
might be saying, "Go for it! It will feel great, and what your spouse
doesn't know won't hurt them," but the reality is, the sin of adultery
will hurt, not only God and your own spiritual welfare, but there will
be a negative effect within your marriage.
As the above Bible verse explains, it is best for us to think clearly,
soberly and using godly wisdom, and to practice the art of
self-control. The ability to refuse and turn away from those things
that are unhealthy and harmful to our minds, bodies and spirits, is not
about deprivation, but for the protection of ourselves and our loved
ones. It is the wise and mature person who understands the beauty in
the word "no" at the appropriate times.
Yes, my friends, sometimes it is necessary in life to say a firm "No,"
but at other times, such as in regard to our acceptance of Christ in to
our lives, it is good to say "Yes!"
Contributed by Melanie Schurr (C) 2005 Melanie Schurr Melanie Schurr is
author of "Ecstatic Living Ecstatic Loving: How to have more peace and
joy in marriage, and life in general by walking in harmony with God,"
and "Son Salutations: A refreshing collection of modern inspirations
for those who seek God each day." For more information, visit her web
page at http://www.angelfire.com/mi/melschurr
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BUILD ME AS YOUR SON, OH LORD!
BUILD ME AS YOUR SON, OH LORD!
By Rommel Somo
Oct 13, 2005
Who will be strong enough to know when I am weak, Brave enough to face
myself when I am afraid; One who will be proud and unbending in honest
defeat Humble and Gentle in victory.
BUILD ME AS YOUR SON, OH LORD!
That my wishes will not take place of deeds; A son who will know Thee.
And that to know Thyself Is the foundation stone of knowledge. Lead me,
I pray, not in the path of ease & comfort. But under the stress and
spur of difficulties & challenge; Let me learn to stand up in the
storm. Let me learn compassion for those who fail.
BUILD ME AS YOUR SON, OH LORD!
Whose heart will be pure.
Whose vision will be clear,
Whose goal will be high;
A son who will master myself
Before I seek to master other men; One who will reach into the future
Yet never forget the past.
Grant me oh Lord with the best pasture of living Through my offering of
hard work, Patience, perseverance & determination. For all good things
comes from your Overflowing love, mercy & kindness.
Lord you said, it is not good for man to be alone. So I pray for the
woman whom you have prepared To be united with me and honor in your
sacrament of matrimony. Perfectly chosen to care, love & inspire thy
son. To whom I shall share your intimate love. The woman whom I shall
love with all of my life and soul. Accepts & trust me not on the basis
of earthly measure. Be the best mother of our children.
And after you grant all these gifts. Add, I pray, enough of a sense of
humor So that I may not always be serious, Yet never take myself too
seriously. Grant me humility, the simplicity of true greatness, The
open mind of true Wisdom. And the meekness of true strength
So that you my LORD, GOD & KING will dare to whisper;
"I HAVE NOT FAILED IN BUILDING HIM AS MY SON"
Through this deeds & gifts, I may not only Honor you Here on Earth but
also my Father & Mother whom you entrusted me.
ROMEL G. SOMO
Poblacion, Tapaz Capiz, Philippines 5814
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